p/s : Pesan buat sahabat ku muhammad..sang perenung Bulan Ilahi

As Salam and gud evening evry one..

Just wanna share wif u guyz.. 

That day......

When it happened..(12022012)

"Tears going through my eyes..All day long..I swore to myself ..It wouldn't happen again. I vowed to myself ..That this was the end. The end of this longing, This yearning so strong. I said I was over you, But oh! I was wrong actually...Now here it is again, Quite awhile later.And my love for you Is now even greater.I spend all my time Thinking of you,I'm in love with you again And there's nothing I can do" I would love you a thousand times for you to love me once " insane rite?

Then , later on . I've been thinking and seek  the perfect reasons for our new "Friendship " or so called " Kawan Baik?"...I keep on thinking , Why can't I just move on with out you! I messed up, I shouldn't care about you any more, but I do, so I am sorry Encik Amad..Everythings, every stuff keep remind me at YOU!!


Yeah.."It's hard to find the good in someone when you have already found the best in someone else"...Then ,  one day, while I was surfing the internet,  free blog walking..I found  this article which AWARE me what I 've been miss before as a Muslimah..as a daughter..and as a SERVENT OF GOD..Allah..masyaAllah!!

-having boyfriend/girlfriend type relationships is completely haraam and forbidden in Islam. If we expect help from Allah then we need to strive to stay within His set boundaries; i.e. in this case staying away from haraam relations as going to the movies and excess time spent between a boy and girl is not right, it will lead to more wrongs. The first glance if not controlled leads to a few sweet words, then to flirting, then to spending time with one another, then physical emotions take over and before one knows it base desires over take common sense and all judgement is clouded. It is completely ok for you to be interested in wanting to get to know this man for marriage, but there are etiquetes to doing so, in order to avoid haraam.

- we must strive to be 'better muslims' now, this minute, this second; not wait till after marriage. Who knows, we may not be alive long enough to be married or to even see the next day or minute;

- when our love for something or someone takes us out of the boundaries of Islam, that 'love' that may once have been pure, becomes polluted and tainted;

- if her 'boyfriend' talks about love and marriage one day and is then able to break off a relationship overnight due to 'jealousy and suspicion', then he clearly has some insecurity issues. Such issue being left undealt with, will only cause problems in any future marriage;

- Umar Ibn Al-Khattab(ra) said: "If something is meant to go elsewhere, it will never come your way, but if it is by destiny, from you it can not flee." More likely there is good in this man leaving your friend. From what you say, she seems to have a habit of forcing herself into bad situations, as she did by getting involved in this relationship in the first place; so remind her to seek patience and accept what Allah has done for her through this 'break up' as a blessing.

Then...I'm smiling to myself.. (^^.) I'am glad for his desicion before it's too late for us.. Believe in fate..  "If something is meant to go elsewhere, it will never come your way, but if it is by destiny, from you it can not flee."   Allah always know the best for us..TQ Allah!!Come to Allah and rather thank Him that He saved you from a haram relationship. Pray to Him and ask from Him; you will never be disappointed and abandoned.

 “O Controller of the hearts! Make my heart steadfast upon Your religion”amin..
Wallahualam.. :) Dotz..